I saw this at sun shower sweet…
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
That’s me
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don’t judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren’t necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people’s eyes.
Sure I like those kinds of people…but I DEFINITELY judge a book by it’s cover, at least to a small extent. We all do.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
Very true. Sure I’m open to being in a relationship and I feel that I’m ready, but I need tangible evidence that me and a dude are compatible and he’s of above average character before I’d consider anything serious.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren’t interested in wasting time with people you don’t really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
This is SO me.
Your views on education
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you
You’re a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you’ll be set for life.
How do you view success:
Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.
I often think about how I’m going to balance a demanding career and family life as I move up the success ladder. Right now I’m just starting out so my job not as demanding most of the time. I look at some of the women at my job who are in their 30’s & 40’s and at the top of their careers making that six-figure salary and I don’t envy them. Six-figures = 90 hr work weeks…how do you balance family life? That is going to be my dilemma at some point. I couldn’t see myself putting my family on the back burner for a company that ultimately considers it’s employees disposable.
What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It’s time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
This part really stood out the most to me. I’ve learned that other people’s opinion of me matter way too much and it’s been heavy on my mind lately. My logical self knows that letting other people’s perception affect me is akin to believing that so-and-so’s opinion of ME matters more to me than my own. That’s stupid! But shit, just because something is right in your mind doesn’t mean your heart agrees.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
Good stuff overall




Interesting. I feel you on the work/family balance piece. I think about that too, but not just a work/family balance. I think about the work/LIFE balance. I can’t spend all my time trying to make money unless I feel I have no other choice.
Comment by Massander — September 27, 2006 @ 3:40 pm